It is pertinent to note that dating online is quite fun. Now get something straight. A great number of people just like to have fun but usually get bored when it comes to locating spots and hang-outs that are usually the resort for finding a lover. They therefore, result in the wrong choice of such lovers even when they meet. Or, perhaps, two people get involved in a relationship only to call it quits probably because the two of them are just incompatible. And so, you begin to scurry around once again for a “lover’’ that fits your fancy. Also, it could be that your job demands so much from you that you hardly afford time to go on a date.
Whatever the reason, online dating has proven to be fun and real sometimes if you play the game according to the rules. Moreover, you can do that any time of the day. But, remember, you are dating someone you have never met in the physical. You have to put on your guard. In order to avoid ‘’opportunists’’ as the people that date online are mostly called, you have to be careful. Even though I may not have all the answers, I believe strongly that you have nothing to lose as you abide by them- your life is important, you know!
1. You must remain anonymous. Don’t reveal your true identity, your home address, your e-mail address, telephone numbers, birthdays, your place of work, etc. during your early days of communication. When you do this, you prevent yourself from been taken for a minced meat.
2. Always use alternative e-mail address(es) for dating. The person at the other end has no right whatsoever to know your e-mail address. Your privacy should be confidential.
3. Ask questions and remember real good. During your telephone discussions or e-mail, ask questions and remember what exactly has been said at the other end of the line. This will give you a guideline whether or not the person stick to their word.
4. Pay great attention to the above mentioned point.
5. Of course, when you decide to meet it must be in a public place. Never create room to meet in a private place such as your home. Just stick to all these points and… Good luck!
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